There comes a point in time when you can talk until you are blue in the face and what you say is not heard. It is this point in time that you have some decisions to make. The decisions are ones that take time to weigh and figure out your best means of approach.
These decisions can be as simple as your words falling on other ears, or as over the top as doing something about it yourself. How do you weigh out these decisions? That is the question I am trying to find the answer for now.
Most likely if you speak your voice and you are not heard, the next time you speak, you may be heard while you are speaking only to be pushed under the rug when you are finished. This is not a solution to the problem. At other times you may get that warm and fuzzy feeling that you have been heard, so you brush it under the rug yourself. This is not a solution to a problem either.
Words do not solve problems. Action solves problems. The action that is taken again involves decision making before acting upon them. Any time that you act without thinking things through, you most likely will hurt yourself the most. When you decide to take action, you must come armed with facts, and use tactful measures. I am not speaking about significant others when I am talking about talking and actions. I am talking about all other things in your life that you may feel are not right.
Some of these things you can control and others you can not. The only thing that is guaranteed is that if you do not take action you definitely can not stand by and complain when everything stays status quo. Make a choice to bring the facts and confront the issues and fight hard for the best outcome possible
Do not fight relentlessly if you have been proven wrong, but fight to the bitter end to prove that you are right while using tactics and treating people with the respect that you expect to be treated with.
This will not always be an easy road, but when it comes time to act, stand tall and stand proud because the actions that you take could change the lives of you and the people around you.
To be bitter or not tho be bitter, that is up for you to decide……..